Loving Your Children More Than You Hate Each Other by Lauren J. Behrman

Loving Your Children More Than You Hate Each Other by Lauren J. Behrman

Author:Lauren J. Behrman
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Published: 2018-04-12T21:07:14+00:00


Wrapping It Up

In this chapter, we explored some very powerful concepts, beginning with the unexpected gifts of transition. Developing the resilience to approach expected and unexpected transitions with openness and curiosity will allow you to take full advantage of the opportunities and hidden possibilities for growth and change. The series of questions we posed in exercise 4.3 helped you assess whether you are operating from the perspective of a victim. If you are, you can use the approaches discussed in this chapter to change this perspective, which include defining or redefining your core values as you seek to recover your authentic self. Creating this list of core values can bring you more in touch with your authentic self, which will then allow you to approach your co-­parent from the more centered position we discussed in chapter 3. Finally, rewriting your divorce story as a hero’s journey is another, deeper way of transforming the way you see yourself—­from victim to survivor to hero.



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